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Post by Zuri Petteri on Oct 1, 2007 22:45:41 GMT -5
This is going to seem as whiny and bitchy as can be, but it's been riding hard on my mind, thus, I am going to write about it here.
The relationships I have managed to forge have in some way or another managed to sink out of IC and cross to OOC. One such relationship, is the one that I share with Wesley. Although it began OOC and slunk IC, the point remains that it transcends both realities.
My issue here, is that the relationship I shared with Brayden was the same way, and I ended up hurting him in both aspects of the spectrum, I cannot allow myself to do this to Wesley. I won't go into details on the various aspects of my relationships, but I just cannot allow myself to hurt someone I love as much as I love him.
That is all.
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Post by Promethius on Oct 2, 2007 0:16:53 GMT -5
I'll post this OOC, and I expect it not to cross IC.
I am the last person to say that there should be complete separation between the human and the vamp. We forget all too often that there are humans behind the vampires. If Prom gets along well with a vampire, I have a reasonable expectation that Matt would get along well with their human. If a vampire pulls a stunt that makes things hard for Prom without warning or chance of redemption, it might get Matt somewhat angry with the player as well. People need to take the human connection into consideration more.
Now...that said, I think you really, REALLY need to work on your IC/OOC boundaries. You SAY that you know better, but it isn't evidenced by your actions. I'm sure you noticed that I distanced Prom from Zuri after he/you came into Prom and Inu's wedding reception whining about one of your IC/OOC relationships. It's because you ruined something that we had planned for a while, and that's just rude as hell. To see that you've still got the same kinda thing going on now is...well...yeah. New verse, same as the first.
They don't turn out okay, period. Stop having them.
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counttuna
Local Legend
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Post by counttuna on Oct 2, 2007 21:11:30 GMT -5
I agree... They turn out bad :'(m
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Post by Zuri Petteri on Oct 2, 2007 21:51:34 GMT -5
Prom, this is going to sound a tad bit bitchy and somewhat hypocritical from what I've said before, but I have worked on those things. The relationship I have for Riv/Wesley began OOC and because of his OOC issues, and lack thereof of ability to download various messengers and such to his shared computer, we crossed over into RB for the pure sake of making an attempt to maintain our shaky relationship.
We've already been over the fucking issue with you and Inu. I've apologized time and time again, it's over, it happened, it's been resolved. Move forward.m
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Post by Promethius on Oct 2, 2007 23:55:36 GMT -5
It's not about offense over that issue, man. It's just an example. They never work out, and they make you look bad.
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Jocelyn
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Post by Jocelyn on Oct 3, 2007 3:47:38 GMT -5
... Wow, you guys are SUCH bitches...
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Labyrinth
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Post by Labyrinth on Oct 6, 2007 5:48:22 GMT -5
The thing about OOC/IC boundries is that they're also a lot easier to make if your character is a different person to the human behind them. Labyrinth, for example, is rather naive, quite the loud-mouth and has a talent for picking fights she can't win. Tess however avoids -most- fights, and picks the one she does choose to wade into, keeps her mouth shut unless she feels she has something worthwhile to say and tends to be pessimistic about everything. That's helped me to differentiate between the two when it comes to what happens with other people, although there is still a lot of connection between the emotive sides of both.
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